What is the worst thing you have ever said to someone?
What prompted you to say it? What were the circumstances surrounding the incident? Are you sorry? Does anyone else know about it?
How would you feel if someone said the same thing to you? If you knew that the things you say had a long-term effect on the people you say them to, would you still say them? How do you feel when you hurt someone's feelings with words? Many questions here, be sure to answer ALL of them
I have said a lot of mean things to people and I don’t really know what the worst thing was. But if I had to pick something then I would say the time I called echelon a black Jew. I was prompted to call him that because he punched me in the face and busted my lip open at a football game in Vine land. We had just beaten the Vine land Fighting Clan in a football game and they were being sore losers and started a fight with us. I tried to help echelon in the fight but I couldn’t cause he punched me in the face which made me call him a black Jew. No I’m not sorry he saw me trying to help him and he swung on me, he said was dark an he didn’t see me but the football lights were on and our uniforms were different colors. That black Jew knows what he did he isn’t fooling nobody. The entire football team knows I called him a black Jew and possibly a hand full of others know. It wouldn’t bother me if anyone called me that cause I’m not Jewish so I don’t care who says that to me. Probably not but I know echelon can take it he’s not a punk just a black Jew who likes punching his teammates. Sometimes I feel like an asshole and I want to apologize to that person cause it will bug me if I really hurt their feelings.
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ReplyDeleteI am a very blunt individual. For myself or somebody like me to remember the meanest thing that they ever said to anybody would be impossible and unbelievably inappropriate. What prompts me to say mean things to people is my attitude/problem. I get very mad for no reason and this causes my mind to go insane. I over-heat inside and everything gets scary. I threaten, torture and bury people with my distressing remarks or language. Basically the whole school knows it, other than my friends. I have respect for them, since they have respect for me. Most of this "meanness" comes from being disrespected. I only respect people if they respect me. I am sorry...at times. If people said the same thing to me, I would be highly upset BUT, I have one rule: Respect me and I'll respect you back. I respect people so I hardly ever have this done to me. I can't control what comes out of my mouth when I disrespect or hurt somebody because it just happens. It's like a demon takes me over and the feeling in my entire body feels like a numb hot hot HOT pain. I get very mad and violent. I like the feeling because it helps me with wrestling :)
ReplyDeleteI think the worst thing I ever said to someone was when I called my dad a freak. Even though it doesn’t even seem that bad he just took so much offence to it that I felt terrible. It said it because we were warming up for a softball game and the coach was doing the soft toss and letting girls warm up there swing. I got beamed in the face with the ball directly on my cheek. My dad was laughing and began to rub my shoulders and I turned and looked at him and said ”can u stop what are u a freak.” yes I was sorry after I said it, but it was to late I couldn’t take it back. My whole family known’s about it. I don’t think I would really be offended if someone said that to me I would just brush it off. I don’t like being mean to people just for the fact that it could stick with them forever. You don’t know all the effect words u say can have on someone. Depending on the situation I most likely feel bad. For example the hole Taylor situation I wouldn’t take back a word I said to that girl meant every word. If I was just being a bitch though and talking shit and it hurt someone I would feel really bad.
ReplyDeleteLike Ian, and many others, I can be blunt. When I am though, when I'm trying to be mean, I put thought into it. Which I find kind of evil, because I will line up a sentence and say things that are specific, and not at all generic. I will get personal. Not something to be proud of, but it's a defense mechanism I use, especially when it comes to pay back. I used to do this with my siblings the most because I felt that they knew I did it out of anger, and that no matter what there's family love between us.
ReplyDeleteI can't really pick the worse thing because each insult is designed for each person that it's directed too. So I'm going to say the latest very mean insult to someone... It went in the lines of
"You're an insecure, good for nothing, little b****, and all you do is whine and whine, and play the victim. Grow up, and deal with the situation."
Now this person I liked, a lot. I tend to be harsh on people I like, and when it comes to people I dislike I don't intertwine a bit of advice in there. This person accused me of trying to "play them out" because of one my guy friends I was helping out. This person jumps to conclusion, and is worse then me when it comes to putting their emotion out there. Something both of us agreed on, no attachments or controls. I am sorry, because I lost this person, because of my pride. Only two other people know about the insult, and I tried to work my way around it. To lighten it up, but the damage was done, and the person agreed that it was too late for change. I would feel like crap if someone told me that, because all those things can apply to me at one point or time. I just think I would have responded better, or never put myself in the position that this person put themselves in to get that insult. If this had a long term effect on someone, and it was going to better them, then I wouldn't take it back. People sometimes takes insults, and it makes them stronger. If this was to ruin someone, then yes I'd feel horrible and probably would like to take it back. It's just my insults aren't random or without reason. At the moment I feel like I conquered but I'm not going to lie, sometimes it eats at me that I felt satisfaction in hurting somebody, and then I feel guilty.
The worst thing I have ever said was probably to my own mother. I’m a very secretive person when I choose to be and my mother was asking about something I didn’t want her to know much about. So in order to get her to stop asking questions I pretty much said that I didn’t love her. The moment I said that I wish I hadn’t, but that’s my problem when people get close to something I don’t feel comfortable around I lash out and do what ever it takes to change the subject. That specific example never came up in my house again so I assume no one else knew except me and my mom. If I knew what I said had a long term affect on people I would pick and choose what I didn’t and didn’t say. If I am going to destroy someone’s life with my words I will bite my tongue, but if it’s to help them I’ll say what ever is on my mind. However, I do slip up sometimes and say things to people that I know will hurt them. Many people trust me with very important and secret information so at any time I could really hurt many of my friends, but I will not allow myself unless I lose all control of my mind and blurt out things without thinking. This has happened to me before. When that does happen I feel terrible and wish I could rewind time and went about the situation a different way.
ReplyDeleteHonestly I can't think of the worst thing I said to someone because Im not that mean of a person. If I did say something mean to a person then they deserve it. The only thing I can think of is when I yelled at one of my old girl friends that won't be named because I don't want to put her on blasted and I feel bad. What I said was disrespectful and I did not mean to say it , it was out of anger. What I said was " You are a worthless piece of shot that has been in my life for too long I hate you and I hope no one will ever want or be in your life cause all you do is fuck it up". Every time I see her I think about what I said and it was a little over broad but the reason why is because she did a lot of things that messed up the relationship. I haven't really told a lot of people because I feel bad and I don't want other people tellinge what I said was wrong. If a girl was to ever say the same thing to me like I did I would slap the mess out of her honestly. That would never happen though because of the situation that we were in and what she did was really messed up and I would never do that to a friend let alone my girl friend so you don't have to worry about me slapping a girl. What I said had a somewhat long-term effect on her because we broke up and didnt talk for like 2 months but it didnt really have a long-term effect because I said sorry to her and we became friends and we still are to this day. The way I feel toward " Hurting" someones feelings is not bad because the only way you can get me to hurt your feelings if you hurt mine first.
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing I ever said was probaly to my current girlfriend Sam when I called her cunt. We were arguing and she said do want us to be over and I said yea because your stupid cunt. Yea im sorry i said it. She didnt talk to me for week it sucked. Yea Sam knows because it was at her house but it was just us two. Im not going lie I was crying and she didnt even say anything that bad to me. So id prob be upset alot because I dont like seeing her upset. I dont know if I would still say them it depends on the circumstances. I truly don't like to hurt people feeling with words.
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing that I've ever said to someone was when I told my dad I hated him. He's a drunk, and was acting as such, he punched my brother out and hit my mom and I tried to call the cops but he ripped the phone out the wall... yeah. Obviously others know about it, like my mom and my brother and now everyone reading this. And if someone said this to me out of the blue I would feel really bad.But if someone said this to me for acting as my father did, I'd feel even worse because I would know that I deserve to be hated. And if I knew that things I said had a long term affect on people, which I do know, I would still say them as long as I 100% meant it. When I hurt someone with words, I feel bad if and only if I know that what I said was wrong and that they didn't deserve to hear that.
ReplyDeleteI'm not saying that I've never said anything bad to anyone before, but I can't really think of anything that I've said that sticks out as 'the worst'. I'll just pick something like "you're an idiot", the insult that pops out of my mouth the most. The circumstances would be when somebody is doing something stupid, which happens a lot. I'm not sorry and everybody knows about me saying stuff like that. I just call it as it is. People have said the same thing to me many times before, but I don't care because it's either when the person saying it is wrong or when I agree. I've done my share of dumb things, so it only makes sense that I should be called out on it if I do the same thing. If I knew that the things I say have a long-term effect on the people I say them to, I'd still say it. When I say something 'hurtful', it's only because I'm trying to tell them "That's stupid, don't do that". Then they would learn from their mistakes and move on with their lives. Although there are times I say offensive things with no meaning, it's only because it's a joke. Everyone laughs when I do that, even the person I'm making fun of. If you're going to make fun of someone, make it entertaining for everybody.
ReplyDeleteEverything i say is either benificial and i say it in a nice way, i think it's all about how you word things. i dont like to really talk behind people backs so i jus say it to thier face so it would be suprises. The reasons to why i said it was because it was how i was feeling, it was needed or i needed to tell them before my words got switched. For exampls if someonee breath was smelled really bad, i would tell them like " your breath smells a little tart " that was something helpful and needed, but more importantly said in a nice way. Everything i say i mean, and when i say it, it's nicely worded so im not really sorry for anything i say. The only way someone else would know about it, is if i was talking behind thier back but other than that i would make sure i pulled them to the side and talked about it with themvprivately. It depends on how someone approach me, it's different ways you can go about thing's if its nice in a way most likely i would not get offended i cant change people's opinions. If i knew it would have a long term affect on people i wouldnt say it. I dont say things to harm people or hurt thier feeling's, but if it was something needed i would make sure i approach you in a proper way when i hurt other people's feeling's with words i feel very bad, because i know how it feels to be verbally abused.
ReplyDeleteIn all honesty I've almost never said anything remotely offensive to someone. But I do remember when I did say something to someone. I do regret saying it but I don't want to say it in this post because it was pretty damn harsh there were so many things that prompted me to say it though. Mostly because I was so annoyed with her and she was so obnoxious. After I said it I felt bad that I did. I tried apologizing but personally I think she took my words to heart. Nobody really knew about it until now. But personally if I knew someone was going to be deeply hurt by the words I speak I would tell them. It'll toughen them up sooner at later. I don't really have any feelings when I say something hurtful to someone at the time, but I do feel bad afterwards. I'd much rather say the words that I really feel than the ones I don't.
ReplyDeleteHaha... Ive been waiting for this one.
ReplyDeleteWell to be honest Im not sure what the worst thing ive ever said was, there are far to many insults to say. possibly when i said that my mother meant nothing to me or when i told my sister she would never amount to anything in life and was completly worthless, Or maybe even when i told an individual that they needed to stop complaining about their life and that if they were contemplating suicide they might as well if they were blind to see how nice their life truly was. If these examples arent good enough to show that i am a remorsless, evil individual and if i go to attack you verbally, or physically for that matter i go for the juggular and i aim for blood. However i do control what i say and who i say it to in certain circumstances. None of my insults or attacks are aimed at innocent individuals only those who deserve it. So no i never regret or feel sorry for saying mean things to people. My ways arent a secret either it is comon knowledge that when i go to hurt i go all out, to be honest most peoples first thought of me is that i am the biggest ass hole they have ever had the displeasure of meeting but hey its who i am, the people who get to know me know better and see the cool side of me... But this is a discussion for a different time... Back on the subject myself and alot of people i know unleash their anger and hatred on indivuals who deserve it but more people say things out of hate and anger and these people end up regretting their descision. I however have no remorse and feel no feelings toward what i say, its what i said and i damn sure meant it